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Freedom From Wealth, Aging - Why Priorities Matter

Charles Lowenhaupt, October 8, 2019

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Preparation starts with setting priorities.  What is most important and what can be forsaken as frailties set in? The author of this article, a familiar figure in this industry, considers the answers to such questions.

Setting priorities 
So how do priorities get set? 

The process begins with an analysis of what’s important and what isn’t to the wealth holder. What can be delegated and what cannot? What dreams does the aging wealth holder want to chase and which of those can be reasonably chased?  Strategies must then be developed for implementing the priorities and delegating responsibilities and tasks. These cannot be confined to the legal documents such as living wills, durable powers of attorney, “declarations of desires” and the like. 

How the analysis is performed may be almost as important as the priorities themselves. The process needs to be done in conjunction with trusted advisors who will help the wealth holder manage their priorities. 

Building the team 
Selecting the team is a substantial project in and of itself. The selection of team members should be based on their capability, not on how much the wealth holder may or may not love them. For example, if the delegation of financial affairs becomes a way to free up time and energy, it may be wise to choose an expert - perhaps someone who is not a family member. 

When those priorities and strategies are developed, the team needs to be engaged. Those team members may be some or all family members; they may be investment professionals, lawyers, doctors, geriatric social workers, pastors, or friends. But importantly, it is the person planning for aging who needs to set the overall theme by defining the dreams to be chased. 

That person planning for aging needs to provide guidance to team members by analyzing various scenarios which might occur. Critically, that team is not to be asked whether they endorse the priorities or whether they would meet challenges posed in the same way as the person planning would meet them. Rather, team members need to understand the priorities and confirm that the strategies can ultimately be implemented, even when the aging person cannot implement them. The team needs to prepare by understanding how the aging person would want them handled. 

Defining priorities 
Priorities are by nature quite general, but more discussion may be needed to understand their specific intent. We often hear “good health” is a priority. That can be difficult to interpret. Is “good health” a condition that allows one to do what he or she wants? What at age 35 would seem unbearable, like feeling sore and stiff when you wake up in the morning, by age 75 can be perfectly acceptable. I know many people who carry oxygen who would have “rather died than do that” when they were 40 years younger. 

The discussion is best begun when individuals are young enough so that their thought process is not diminished, and their health is still good. What a 60-year-old can consider objectively may be impossible for a 90-year-old to contemplate. 

Aging well, like living well, requires the freedom to passionately pursue self-actualization. A 20-year-old can chase every passion without running out of energy or time. A 70- year-old has to be more selective. Fortunately, the 70-year-old has had more time to see life and to decide on what is important. 

About the author
Charles A. Lowenhaupt is Managing Member of Lowenhaupt & Chasnoff, LLC, a law firm founded in 1908 that develops wealth strategies and provides counseling to individuals and families of significant wealth. Lowenhaupt is also co-author of the book, Freedom From Wealth and author of  The Wise Wealth Inheritor’s Guide to Freedom From Wealth.

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